what to do? Okay so me and the hubby have done this before. Well tonight he is out with the guys and a female we both know has propositioned us to come back with him. I am not sure if i am really in to this girl or not. What should I do? I need to know b/c I am craving another female but she just may not be what I am looking for. HELP PLZ!!!!

How can we help? I mean, are you asking us, with almost 0 information, to vote on whether one woman we don't know really wants to have sex with another woman we don't know? And then based on the results of this poll, you'll either have sex or you won't? I don't want that kind of responsibility. But... if you're feeling this panicked about it, I would say that's a sign that you shouldn't do this tonight. Go more slowly. Meet her for some more social activity, like dinner or drinks. You don't have to just rip off your clothes and have sex immediately if you're not sure.

How would I know? I don't know you, or her, or your husband. The most sensible suggestion I can give is the one I already have. Go more slowly. Have dinner or drinks or coffee or something with her first, to determine if there's a genuine attraction.

That sounds like too much pressure to me. It's only January 3. It's not the last day of the universe. If she is really interested in you two, she can wait for another day. Make this day just a social one. You don't have to be best friends to have sex together, but I happen to think sex is way, way better among people who actually like each other. So if you have dinner or drinks and just flirt and laugh and get to know each other, it should make your first real 'session' (should you all still want one) even hotter.

good answer I have never meet any woman that will just tear off her clothes and have sex with anyone. sounds like the hubby is pressing for this.

good for you I have to say then you must be quite hot for some other woman to want to rip off her clothes and have sex with the hubby and you. Look in to it if that is what you want get to know her first them go for it if it feels right.

It's just crazy b/c we are overseas and it seems someone for a 3some is hard to find. We are in such a tight knitted community that nobody wants to let their true sexual side show. In the states I had a GF that me and the hubby shared and here we can't seem to find that.

hmmmm.... having that trouble overseas thats unusual..... i hear its better to do that sorta thing overseas rather then here hmmmmmmm......

Or location is not a European location. It's in Asia. So the options are limited.

But would this woman see you tonight for sex only? She wouldn't meet for dinner first and sex another night? I mean, is she traveling in from somewhere else?

Not sure what this would be. Peoples time here is short. I know she has had issuses with finding someone that is not married for an individual relationship. I am assuming that she is looking for a little relief like we are.

Well... you don't HAVE to do something just because you can. xsomes are great, I agree with you there. But that's *good* threesomes, not just any threesomes.

So agree to meet for dinner and drinks, and then just play it by ear. Remove the pressure, but leave the door open. You haven't even laid eyes on her yet, right?