Hanky Code?....really?... Maybe I'm out of the scene for too long but honestly - does anyone follow a hanky color code?

They certainly used to, in the 1970s and early 80s. It's been making a bit of a comeback lately.

have you ever?

a hanky code for women? I knew gay men had a hanky code but didn't know women did :-O

Some gals follow it, but it's rare any more.

I thought it was more a BDSM/fetish thing at this point

Not at all. I am very picky about my hankies matching my outfit. A lady should always be color coordinated. ;-)

could severely limit clothing fabric choices!

HA! you crack me up dives... here are some ++++

Unless of course you wear those colors to an Oakland A's game. Then, they are sooooo wrong. ;-)

Hey, wait a minute! (frantiy recollecting outfit from over a year ago...lucklily?, my wardrobe is pretty sparse) I DID wear those colors! Do I need to mention someone's delicate scream and sheltering under a (kindly shared) blanket to take attention away from my clothes? :)

You mean under a color coordinated blanket, right? heehee

And....you're right - the blanket WAS coordinated! You know, if I'd noticed that at the time, I would have been intimidated as hell. Good thing I'm pretty non-observant/clueless. *Runs screaming to a world of monochromatic colors, without hankies*

oh er uhmmm You were wearing black? I never noticed. Guess my eyes never went lower than your face ;-)

How about.... a Pants Code! What special proclivity would these be a flag for, I wonder?

you like makin' nookie in the woods