I've been thinking about a past situation. I was close with this couple, and they were engaged to be married. The guy hadn't been with many women and wanted a one time pass from his fiancé. She did more than give her blessing; when he suggested me she took charge and approached me about it. She set-up the evening for us by having me over for dinner, and beckoned herself to bed for sleep to leave us alone. We sat and talked for awhile about where we worked together, and gave plenty of time for her to fall asleep. We then stretched out on the floor and began with our first kiss, touch, holding and grabbing for each other. As the night progressed, I couldn’t help but looking back at a wicker fan chair sensing something, but never quite figuring it out. We explored each others bodies for awhile and he was wonderful. He’s the first I ever experienced eating me out, and I was in ecstasy! I rode him hard; grinding myself down on him buried deep inside. We came together as both our bodies writhed with the intense spasms down through our toes. After we lay together under the blankets and talked. Not just about what we had just done and how it made each other feel, but also random thoughts. He helped me dress, saw me to my car, and returned to his fiancé. The next night I went over for our group card game, she was edgy with me the entire evening, and not in a good way. The tension grew until she began to tell me angry she was with how I made love to her guy. That we did things she hadn’t done with him. That she had watched the entire evening and couldn’t believe that we actually laid and talked after. She had never done that. I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. He was such an open giving lover and I enjoyed every minute of that night together. Looking back I think this is why I don’t get into voyeurism with her backlash after. Has anyone had a similar situation and moved beyond it?

too sweet May I also eat you?

Did they still marry? You story is a good example, though, of why I think the sometimes-standard kinkfo advice of "Oh, if your wife won't X, just ask her for permission to go do it with someone else" won't bring quite the desired results. Bad or ho-hum sex isn't any one person's "fault," though. It's a shared dynamic. Somehow, they weren't bringing it out in each other. The fact that he even asked, while engaged, for a chance to be with someone else indicates to me that he knew things weren't quite right between them.

and that's how unhappy marriages start....

oops, sorry. Generalization. that's how SOME unhappy marriages start.

it gets tedious being so PC all the time

*scoffs* I know.

He owed her getting married to her? sounds like a business transaction.

It felt that way to me too. He also said he couldn't change his mind because his aunt was making her wedding dress. I tried to tell him it's only a dress, but he felt pretty strong about owing her.

Oh gawd... I hope even if they divorced he never told her that! "I had to marry you... you see, the fabric had already been purchased." How awful. Sounds like quite a few "issues" for both of them. You're probably better off having lost contact.

It seems to me that they are getting married for all the wrong reason, a recipe for disaster, oh well...

This all went down years ago, I really don't see how they made it, but hate to say that.

I think her reaction is why a lot of couples don't go into swapping of cuckolding. It's sad that she was ok with it at first and then became insecure. Did it end up hurting the relationship of them two? What ended up from it? is everybody ok now? The wife has promised me a threesome but has already admitted to being insecure. I respect that so until she approaches me and says she is totally fine with it, I'm going to have to settle with a promise.

It's been years since I've seen either of them. I wonder about them from time to time, and hope they did make it through. Something just tells me otherwise. I was young and took her at face value for wanting this for him.

I'm sure no one knew there was going to be a reaction like what happened. that's just part of the dangers with playing like that. hopefully they both got past it though.