I've always heard there are not enough butches to go around so this comes as quite a shock

in shock? that's how I feel about the endless search.

the chemiy balanced requirement might be what is tripping you up

ya think? I'm starting to think there are no sane femmes at all! Isnt that the least a butch can ask for?

Why not... just look for another butch?

umm, why not?

because....... (bluntly) I am butch. And I am attracted to femmes. That's my desire.

what I've found is we're all women when we're naked.

this is true....but butch is more than what is under our clothes.

Variety is the spice of life :)

thats what butches ... finding themselves lol

well good luck in your search

you sound kind of desperate

You really think that butch women don't have curves? Huh.

of course they do men also have curves--I don't care to date them either. I wasn't trying to argue with you. Maybe you don't have a strong preference for girlie girls, some folks do. Telling a butch who likes femmes to try dating another butch is folly. That's all.