A discussion from earlier got me thinking about being submissive and being a pain slut. Do most people assume they go hand in hand? I am very submissive but I don't love the pain. I even had a Dom tell me it was because I had not had the right Dom yet. I don't think you can "make" someone love pain any more than you can "make" them submissive. Any thoughts?

that dom's a fucking douche i hate those people who're like oh, you're this way because you haven't met the right X (meaning the person who's saying this to you is the "right X") yet.

you can be a submisive and not be a pain slut, it is very common