One of two reasons 1. The "JO only" request is as fake as the rest of his ad - What they really mean when they say "JO Only" is that they are only willing to initially agree to JO with another guy, but if he likes you the guy fuilly expects to be able to suck your cock and/or get fucked by you (otherwise he'll claim you are a game player). The POZ (poz myself) is an obstacle to the plan. 2. They are abnormally afraid of poz people

You really think there are not guys out there that are truly looking to only JO?

Absolutely I've often placved ads myself for JO only (and have meant it), but my above answer was in regards to the ones who specify neg only - that's the only two situations I can understand someone wanting neg only for JO.

He did have option #2 in his response. Did you see that? Guys who are abnormally afraid of HIV...

Yes, I saw that.

no prob with poz guyz here i think the only thing i wouldnt do is toss salad. anything else is GAME ON! (safely of course)

Yep. Some don't want to get too gay. They really believe that to do more makes them more gay. Or, yes, that is the only thing that gets them off. Takes all kinds of people. I'm just sayin'...

That may explain some of them but not all of them.

It takes all kinds to make a world. That about covers it. :)

True dat.

It's ed having a preference. It's no different than any of the other preferences that people list in their ads. When someone says they are only looking for only Asian guys, it doesn't mean they are afraid of black guys. It just means that is what they like.

Can you clarify I assume (yes - I should know better) that you mean that knowing someone is poz can be enough to interfere with finding someone sexually attractive - at least in the sense of being able to get aroused in their presence.

Yes, that is correct.

fair enough - that's a thrid reason then

I guess I can still be naive at x Thanks for your thoughts. I really enjoy a good side by side jo session though....will keep looking!

Naivete is highly underrated Sometimes, as a member of the gay culture, don't you just feel like you've seen too much? I realize that exposure to multiple experiences is the path to enlightenment. However, I occasionally say to myself, "hmmmm, I could've lived my whole life without having seen that." Any thoughts?