wish I had the perfect words You are still valuable and worthy of love. Be brave and allow the emotions and tears to come for they are healing. Your feelings will help release the pain so let them out. Find a supportive friend who will allow you to talk about this until you can't talk any more. Trust that you will know when it's time to let go. You heart will repair itself, just give it time.

ferocious exercise helps a bit. And doesn't hurt the self esteem to be looking good while she's missing you.

I'll see you & raise you some burnt stuff...

you will get along okay come may 18 my partner and i ended a 30+ year relationship. maybe it is i am older or just numb but keep plugging away