and I do mean like face slapping. not like strapper on the ass shit.

bitch like you know bottom/sub/bitch/slave hell you know i got a foul mouth at times. so let me ask you this. do you get light slaps or a strong smacks? and if any of the above what do you like? it would just be cool to know question #2 lol

I like them hard. hard enough to make hear bells and see stars. Hard enough that my head snaps. Hard enough that my face stings for a while after.

no, i can only take one or two moderate slaps but my current SO can deliver none. Haven't yet been able to undo heavy military style conditioning.

face warmers:)

it's funny I hated face slapping with my first Dom. But I really got into it with DG, partly I think because I know what a turn on it is for her to be the one being slapped. But I really, really like it now, and have been slapped by a couple of playmates since her.

i discovered that I love face slapping. and punching people in the face, too. I have this one "vanilla" friend who loves to provoke me to hit him. So is not real wild about that game tho, lol.

I've never been slapped in the face during sex or play but I would try it and see if I liked it. Sounds kind of hot the way you & 60629 are talking about it...I do like it when someone makes me cry...

hands on face is really intimate be it a caress or a slap. Slapping isn't for everyone, but IMO it's a really heady sensation. Especially between two deeply involved people.

Only time I've been slapped in the face during sex it was non-negotiated and unexpected with a casual partner who never heard from me again afterwards. Although he did hear plenty at the time. How does "I like it a little rough" during flirtatious conversation on a second date turn into being slapped hard in the face the first time we get naked together? moron. I might like it in a d/s context but haven't went there with my dom. I think it would have to be a roleplay situation for it to work and he'd better hit me pretty hard or I'd probably burst out laughing...

I don't think I could do it no women I have ever been with either kink or vanilla have ever expressed an interest, but honestly I don't think I could do it even if I got begged for it. Tits, nipples, ass, pussy, clit, thighs - all that I can smack around pretty hard if encouraged to do it harder than I would ordinarily deliver ... but the face would be a problem for me, I think. I also think the reasons I couldn't are probably pretty standard: Face bruises = abuse in a non-BDSM context, right? I'd be self-conscious of that aspect, and I'd probably be really nervous (ok, terrified) about being perceived that way if I was going to be out in public with a woman whose face I had bruised.

Bitches can use makeup!

but ya know if it dont sit right with ya.....

But many bitches don't like to :)

Well the thing is I don't have "bitches". I don't have slaves. I don't have sluts ... I have subs, wenches, sextoys ... Is the fact that I'm less "hardcore" in the relationship dynamic making the difference between faceslapping or not? I doubt it. I've done some fairly hardcore things, including bloodplay involving a surgical scalpel and some really intense nipple/tit torture. I just don't think I could hit a woman in the face, for cultural conditioning reasons I guess.