1 week of testosterone therapy update So I brought up last week that my wife started testosterone therapy for low libido. The fist day was little rocky, she decided she needed the cock badly but half way through sex she start crying. But she didn't even know why. Well that hasn't happened since last thurs. But we have had sex 5 of the past 7 days which is the most I can remember getting at any point. She says sex is more fun than before even if it isn't the best sex we have ever had or the most passionate it is still fun. This is great because she doesn't usually talk about sex as fun, she says she enjoys it, she likes it, but fun isn't a descriptor she uses for sex. Also the passion has been pretty high, she is into it so much more and I can tell. But the best parts are subtle and only me and her would notice. For one she keeps mentioning how she has thoughts of sex pop into her head. Most would consider that normal but it is not for her, she just doesn't think about sex. So this is giving me hope that before long she might start fantasizing about sex, then we will have some juicy ideas to work with. But also she is just more open to sex, before if she didn't want sex it wasn't going to happen period. There was no such thing as getting her in the mood, if I tried she would just push me away. Now it seems that I can come in and start kissing on her and such and she warms up to it. She is more receptive to sex and sexual advances. For example the other day I brought the idea of masturbating together, she said she was tempted but she wanted to finish her game. So I went and put her new dildo on her pillow so she would see it when she went into the bedroom. In the past I would have gotten told to put that thing away and it would have been over. But this time she laughs and says what is that, then picks it up and looks at it like she is seriously contemplating whether or not she wants to use it. She sat there thinking about it for a couple minutes. Afterward she decided not to and that was fine especially since she was asleep within 5min of laying down so she needed sleep. But it is awesome that she considers sex instead of dismissing it, that she is open to advances and she is thinking about it.

rock on I am glad I stand by my original advice to keep going with it. It looks like it worked out. :)

Yes I agreed with your advice at the time and currently. A single day wasn't enough to judge it. She is planning on continuing with it. I am looking forward to it leveling off in a few weeks and it becoming more constant. Currently it really kicks in after two hours but the onset is getting less powerful and I think it will become more general feeling all day. I hope she starts fantasizing about sex sometimes because I want to hear them and fulfill them. It is also very cool that she now understands much of what I have told her about sex thoughts popping into my head. Or about feeling the need to fuck. They were so foreign to her that she didn't comprehend them now she is experiencing it.

bear in mind more than half of this is still psychological in nature - once you get the feel for good sex, you start working it from a totally different angle. Here's an interesting thing - an intense sexual experience can be as regenerative and useful to a person's neurochem as any number of lesser experiences. It only really takes one good sex act to get you going, in other words. She might one day not need it at all.

Three cheers for endocrinology.

hip hip HOOORAY

that is cool! I'm glad she is starting to come around. Keep us updated

Glad its working out for you both

So am I and we are continuing with diet and exercise. My wife wants to get into better shape so she can fuck longer, who am I to argue with logic like that.

Sounds very positive...good luck!

i wish both of you the very best and that she can find the happiness she seeks!

I think it is bizzare for her because she has never really had sex thoughts or just needed to fuck or anything like that. So it is new territory for her but she likes it so far. I kinda wonder how she will react the first time I deny her sex since she has never been denied sex.

i wouldn;t go there if she is making all of this effort don't undermine her good intentions by withholding it from her i think that would do far more harm than good

I would agree work up to that.

I'm not intending on it but I recognize that if she has an equal libido to mine there will be occasions when she may want sex and I may not. It just is the way things work out sometimes. In the past it was not an issue at all because we were having sex less so I was always down for sex.

Thank you for posting an update! :) I'm so happy for you both. I'm always telling people to get their hormones checked, and your story is so wonderful to hear. I'm really glad you're on the fo. I think you can give hope to a lot of people! ♥