hmmm.... my husband and I are really a great match - best friends, we do feel we are so very much alike on the inside, however most who know us would say we are opposites! HA

But fundamentally I bet you are the same I've found the biggest factor is emotional maturity. Usually has to do with how stable/nurturing your childhood was.

well, we both know for a fact we are very much alike on the inside, however, he was abused in everyway possible as a child and I had issues , such as divorce in my family, but in no way abused.