Time to settle a kinktroversy Ok, there's a kinktroversy still burning across my mind here I'd like to settle out. I've always paddled, never caned. I've seen guys get caned, at play parties and stuff - and once a Domme told me its better to cane a guy. Here's what she said. "Guys have prostates, and when you hit them with a cane, they contract and put pressure on the prostate. I always cane guys". I was told to use a paddle on females because it can set up vibrations through them if you hit them in the right place, and they can come from it. Not every woman can come from a spanking. I give you that. But I have seen it. Has anyone ever seen a woman come from a caning?

I cum from spanking or paddling. i have never been caned.

ty yea my subbie too she's been caned but she said she's never cum from it.

Does she enjoy it?

Thats a question That I always ask with my fingers. :D

You are a good Sir arent you?

No, not really. There are better than me. I'm an amateur. Ok, I'm out.

domme named alex If I re. she was an SG. So, you came from a caning? What was it like?

what does that matter as long as I or should i say we enjoyed it? I shouldn't do because some chick you know says I can't/shouldn't it's bullshit

I think it is a matter of When you are new and learning, you think everyone knows more then you. You are not even sure what good looks like. You take advice from everyone without knowing how accurate it is. Some of that advice is bad, but you do not realize it till you get challenged on it. Sometimes that can take a long time.

i would agree CeCe and why i encourage new people to do research but after read this forum for 2 years and fetlife...and others...I have never seen anyone assert that impact play is gender specific turner has been around long enough to have made an intelligent decision on his own I also feel,and this is my op, that ehposted this to be inflammatory

Considering he got the same answer In the pic discussion thread, I think you may be right

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