guy's expressed interest in me; but Im confused I'm used to one physical type of guy, w very little experience otherwise. I'm scared that I will meet this man and then totally freak and the date will be a humiliating disaster.

you're going to avoid him because he's different physiy than what you're used to? Makes no sense

what if I meet him and cant find chemistry ? I'd prefer to actually find my dates physiy attractive.

that's what dates are for - to see if there's something to build on P.S. you don't have to fuck on the first date, you know

Ive seen his picture, nice looking but not the type I know I will certainly be attracted to

Then it's one date that goes nowhere. Big deal. You will live.

you can't always tell from pictures, AND a great personality can override physical appearances at least for me

Im used to tall, well hung black men.

thats not the type Im used to

whatever you say, troll